I discovered that I had a story I had created about myself. I came up with it, as we all do, when I was a child, and then I carried that behavior into adult relationships.
It often didn’t serve me well.
The challenge is to create a new story about who you are & want to be. Mine is a more forthright, more loving (starting with me!) & less needy woman. I’ve established a set of values & I’m on my journey.
What’s your story? Did you make one up as a child? Do you have a new one now, or are you ready for a change?